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Addiction Rehab Celebrates 3 Years

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Addiction Rehab Celebrates 3 Years

Always Hope addiction rehab opened their doors September 15, 2014. In celebration we are offering to discount the full 4 week program by 10% for those coming before the end of September, 2017. We are so grateful to all those that have supported us, and trusted us.

Call or text 1-829-932-0123 today for details. 

Take advantage of this offer. We offer private rooms, with private bathrooms, daily 1-1 counselling and many cool outings. We would love to help you or your loved one.

My Addiction: No Judgement

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No Judgement

As someone who was 110% against the idea of rehab I cannot say enough good things about Always Hope! From the moment I met Roger and Shauna at the airport they made me feel like part of the family and no judgement was made.

Working through the 12 steps with Jim’s guidance not only taught me some valuable lessons and helped me heal, but was also done in a way that was “kinda fun”

My stay at Always Hope really was like a mini-vacation with therapy. It was nice to be surrounded by people who been where I have and in an environment where judgement doesn’t exist.

Always Hope has changed my life and I’m lucky to also now be able to call Roger, Shauna and Jim my friends.

Call 1-829-932-0123 today to talk with Always Hope

Was My Addiction a Blessing or a Curse?

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Was My Addiction a Blessing or a Curse?

I am a cocaine addict.
In fact, I am proud when I say that now. (in this new life of recovery).
Thanks to @Always-Hope.ca, I am slowly finding new ways of living life in sobriety, thanks to the tools I have now been given to handle situations that truly used to baffle me.
And the best part is – I am loving each and every moment of it!

To be eternally grateful for a life I could only imagine in my addiction; has turned out to become one the biggest gifts I have come to experience.

A new life in recovery.
With god.
I call it a miracle, or some may call it a blessing – whatever it is, it is magical. For somebody who never had faith in God, it seems almost surreal that a higher power of some sort could restore (people like myself) from a completely hopeless state of mind, body and soul. Especially when I resented the very thought of such an entity.

In fact, I hated god in the early days of my life.

Standing at the edge of the world – it came down to two choices when I had hit yet another rock bottom in my addiction.

The two choices were:

  1. I could jump off
  2. I could turn back

What would it be?

I was so far gone from the world I once knew and loved, that I had become perfectly fine living in the dirtiest dumps I had come to see and believe, would be my new home.
To not only lose my sanity in the process, I became someone I truly did not dream of being as a child. In fact, people used to call me “S.Y.N” in my early days of being out on the streets, that I have now come to truly realize the meaning behind that name I was given:
“Someone You’re Not”.

Chasing something that was never there to begin with, was truly my interpretation of what we call a “fool’s gold”. I had become so desperate in my addiction, that I truly thought I could not live life sober. Without another hit? This was something I truly thought was impossible.

With the help of Always-Hope.ca, my new life is now filled with endless opportunities.
And I am not just saying that.

I am loving life as I write this.
I am living proof as I write this.
I am giving hope as I write this.

I made a decision that I had to go to any lengths to get my life back, even if that meant losing everything I loved. (thank god I didn’t, but I was at a point in my life where I was ready to).

And you may wonder:

Why?
(Would I give up my addiction and love for it – to trade it in for something I had no clue about)
Specifically, this was the hardest question I had to ask myself in treatment. It was particularly scary for me at first – because I was so comfortable in my addiction that I had come to enjoy the excuses, the lies, and the fairy tale life I had been getting away with for so many years. But, Was I being true to others?
More importantly, was I being true to myself?

By the end of it, I had to ask myself:
“How much is my life worth?”

Thank god, now I know

My life is worth each and every second I breathe.
My life is worth each and every moment I live.
My life is worth each and every person I have crossed paths with to show how much love I can give to the world through my eyes.

That my brother/sister to me is:       Priceless!

How?
1. [H]onesty starts within myself first and foremost
2. [O]pen-mindedness to learning a new way of living, because I was living my last life all wrong
3. [W]illingness to go as far or wide to get my life back. After all, didn’t I go the same lengths to get another high?

Each and everyday in this new life in recovery is just getting better and better.
And I am only on day 49!
And everyday I feel less of a slave to the chaos I created in my life, and now I am slowly getting closer to a new freedom, cut from the ball and chains I had been locked in for far too long.

I can’t imagine how I am going to feel on day 365. Absolutely amazing I presume.
But all I have is hope, courage, and for that – I am grateful for this new life that I have been given.

I call life in sobriety the biggest gift in my life.
I call life in addiction the biggest curse in my life.

What choice would I make?
The gift and the curse as I call it now, has given me the courage to be true to myself. I now choose to live my life labelled as “a recovering addict” who has now sacrificed his old life to be of service to others who are in dire need of help. I can choose to be the boulder in the path, or I can be the guiding light to the end of the tunnel.

But ultimately, it came down to me. A choice I would have to make for myself, and myself only. No one could make this choice for me, except myself.
And forever into eternity, the decision I make will be something no one in the entire world could take away from me. I will take this to the grave.

As each day passes, I find myself successfully completing my regular day-to-day activities that used to take me weeks to get through – I am now getting done in a day.

Wow, what an amazing feeling one could have..

But one day at a time.
But one step at a time.
But one moment at a time is the thy new way of life I live by.

It’s all I have to give, and truthfully, it’s all I had left.

What choice will you make?          Call Roger at Always Hope today for help.

1-829-932-0123

Tough Love: Enabling Parents of Addicts/Alcoholics

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Tough Love: Enabling Parents of Addicts/Alcoholics

From my perspective of once being in the position of trying to manipulate, making excuses or lie to prolong getting the help I knew I needed. To also witnessing this happening when adult children lie, manipulate and make every excuse as to why they are now ”cured” and don’t need any help or counselling. It breaks my heart seeing these “kids” convince their parents to rescue them again or “bail” them out of rehab. Tough love is sometimes neccesary. Many of these parents have spent a lot of emotional and financial effort to give their child a chance at getting professional help and are trying to save their children’s lives.

Questions to ask yourself:

  1. Is your child acting like they are entitled to things or your money, or demanding things?
  2. Do you feel like you are living from crisis to crisis with your child?
  3. Are you sacrificing too much while your child takes no responsibility?

Parents face a difficult situation when trying to figure out how to help their children with their addiction issues. We all want to help our loved ones through their struggles in life, but it is often hard for a parent to understand the difference between helping or enabling. Enabling is helping too much and allows the destructive behaviour to continue, fixing problems for others that they could do themselves and doesn’t allow the child to grow or gain responsibility. Tough love is quite often the only way to save your child’s life.

As the child (often adult children) progress into the grips of addiction the lies and manipulation increase. They will make their parents feel shame or guilt and use every excuse to try and get you to “help” them. Giving them money and absorbing the consequences of the addicts actions just prolongs active addiction and delays the addict from accepting the help that would truly benefit them.

What can you as an enabling parent do?

  • Tough Love
  • Don’t be persuaded by the lies, manipulation, excuses or stories your child makes up.
  • Loving your child doesn’t mean you can’t say “no”
  • Offer helpful options such as a counsellor, 12 step meetings or possibly an addiction treatment centre.
  • Realize that your child may say and do things to hurt you, but don’t give in.

It may feel like you are the only ones in this situation but your not alone. There are support groups available to help you through these difficult times and know that it isn’t you, its the addiction taking over your child. Tough love may be the best option.

Or call or text 1-829-932-0123 for assistance

Procrastination and Addiction

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Procrastination won’t get you results

Procrastination or putting off till tomorrow what you could tackle today is a recipe for disaster. If addiction is controlling your life, tomorrow may not be an option. Many people procrastinate too long and unfortunately end up going to the bitter ends of jails, institutions or worse death. Today through the help of the twelve steps and/or addiction treatment there are options for you or your loved ones to have a better life. There is no need to continue just existing, why not start really living life and enjoying all the blessings the world has to offer.

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As most of us like to procrastinate to a certain extent (homework, cleaning house, etc) we come to accept that putting off until tomorrow is not such a big deal. But, to an addict who is still struggling to quit using it could mean life or death. Excuses become rampant as to why they can’t quit today (a job, family, it’s not so bad yet). Procrastinate getting help long enough and it could become “never“.

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Recovery Caribbean Coast

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Recovery Caribbean Coast

Addiction treatment doesn’t need to be your typical “institution” or jail like facility. Always Hope treatment center is located on the North Coast of the Dominican Republic and features a brand new, first-class option for those looking to get away from their current environment. If you or a loved on is looking for recovery caribbean coast we may be your best option.

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Are you tired of just existing? Do you truly want to live and experience all that life can offer? If you or someone you love is struggling with a drug or alcohol addiction and wants help to stop, we can provide the support and tools necessary to overcome it.

We provide a full service alcohol and drug addiction treatment center. If you want what we have to offer and are willing to take certain steps, recovery from addiction is possible. Ultimately the decision of how you apply what you have learned is yours.

Addiction never takes a break and neither do we at Always Hope. We are available to talk, email and help 24/7. If you or someone you love is struggling today in the grips of addiction please contact us today as we would love to provide assistance. Remember there is Always Hope.

Addiction treatment and life after treatment

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Treatment for addiction and the life afterwards 

Accepting you have an addiction and reaching out for help is difficult, and only the first step on your way to recovering. Going to an addiction treatment facility will help you gain the tools to abstain from mind altering substances. But if you don’t learn how to use these tools and apply them to your life you may never enjoy all the great things that life has to offer. Life will still have its challenges but with a clear mind and conscience, and the tools learnt in treatment you can deal with any curveball life throws your way. Life is and can be awesome and amazing.

Life is limitless when you aren’t living in the fog of addiction. The big book of AA lists the “promises” that are available to all if they follow the steps and guidance required to a healthy life. These aren’t extravagant promises and they may take time to realize them all in your own life. But they will come true if you take the basic steps to work towards them. Read More→